How many times in grade school did we challenge each other to the holding of breathe trick only to amaze those foolish enough to believe that we could hold our breath for prolonged minutes by filling our mouths with air and breathing through our nose. I know so many people who are holding their breathe but do not know the trick and are suffocating. Longing to win the challenge for fear of letting go first. If we continually hold our breath and chose to not let go of what we are holding onto eventually we will all suffocate, nobody wins. But who says winning is all that great. Sometimes winning is losing.